I think there “s different levels of “talking” to people.
I have personally never found it difficult to strike up a conversation with anyone, anywhere, at any time.
However, if you give me certain topics, I will clam up and literally curl into a ball rather than speak them out loud – even to people that I “m super comfortable with.
Give me a pen and paper or a keyboard and I can write for hours about those same things.
So, its really all about personal comfort – what is your comfort level, and how can you test that?
I “m sure you are able to talk to some females (say, your mother, sister, aunt, etc) about *some* topics. Figure out where you “re having trouble and you “ll be able to start expanding your personal comfort zone.
Originally Posted: https://www.quora.com/Is-talking-to-girls-in-person-harder
Originally Posted On: 2016-07-18