This is actually a tough question. Looking back on it, I recognize the love that was there before either of us realized it.
I was definitely quick on the uptake, as I was in a relationship that had suffered a lack, and recognized the spark between my (then future) husband and myself, and I acted quickly to bring us together – but while he recognized something different I think it took him a little longer to understand it as love.
If I could point to a particular incident, it would have to be when he came home from work one day and (so he says) found me passed out on the floor. I woke up in an emergency room with IV fluids in me, with him yelling at everyone in sight trying to find out what happened and “How could they let this” blah blah blah…
He then dutifully accompanied me to doctors for a battery of tests and would not stop until they found something that would prevent it from happening again.
I’d say that was evidence of love.
Originally Posted: https://www.quora.com/What-was-the-moment-you-realized-that-your-significant-other-loved-you
Originally Posted On: 2016-01-18