There are some women who are “hit on” all the time, and some women who are not. From my observation, it has nothing to do with their size, only their confidence level.
Are there are women who fit “society’s norm” for beauty that men will flirt with? Absolutely yes.
Are there women who do not fit that norm that men will flirt with? Absolutely yes.
Something that people don’t take into account often enough is that a large part of “attractiveness” is actually “confidence.” How you feel about yourself is often how other people will feel about you. If you do not like yourself, then other people will not either.
Therefore, if you are comfortable and confident in your own skin, then you’ll attract people. Obviously, as you feel that you are relatively pretty, you’re getting some notice already from the people who are sensing your confidence level.
If you would like to lose weight, you will need to make sure you really care about why you would be doing so. If you do it for a “fantasy” idea, then it won’t likely be permanent (or healthy.) Find a reason that means something for you, if you do it at all.
Or, learn to be comfortable with who you are.
Originally Posted: https://www.quora.com/I-weigh-310-pounds-but-Im-reasonably-pretty-I-am-not-obese-but-am-considered-overweight-Will-I-get-more-attention-from-men-if-I-slim-down-Do-skinny-and-reasonably-pretty-women-get-hit-on-by-guys-all-the-time-or-is-that-just-a-fantasy-of-mine
Originally Posted On: 2015-12-17