I’m not sure if this counts as degrading – you’d have to be male to comment on that – but it certainly appears highly upsetting to him:
I’ll be in the midst of telling a wonderful story about my husband Leon and me (to whom I’ve been married 15 years) to friends or acquaintances, about something amazing, lovely and spectacular we did together.
Everyone will be rapt with attention, as caught up in the romance of it as me, when he’ll lean over and whisper, in a voice so low that only I can hear:
“That was with Jeff.”
It’s like an instant dagger to my heart, every time.
Originally Posted: https://www.quora.com/What-is-the-most-degrading-thing-you-have-ever-said-to-a-man
Originally Posted On: 2016-04-26