Honestly, whenever I mention my husband it is because he is so integrated into my life that the reference flows naturally. I’m not purposely interjecting his name, he just “is.”
I have always been like that, even with boyfriends before I was married.
Coincidentally, I showed this question to my husband and he said “The person who asked that question must be pretty young.”
I asked him why, and he said “Well, most guys learn pretty quickly that it doesn’t matter if a girl has a boyfriend, husband or whatever – all that matters is if she chooses to spend her time with you and not him.”
Originally Posted: https://www.quora.com/Why-do-women-always-drop-the-boyfriend-bomb-Like-in-your-first-conversation-with-them-for-example
Originally Posted On: 2016-01-23